Motherhood Unscripted: Real Birth Stories of Strength and Resilience

Mother's Day is more than just a date on the calendar; it is a profound acknowledgment of the pivotal role mothers play in our lives. It is a day for reflection, gratitude, and celebration of the unconditional love and support mothers provide. By honoring mothers, we recognize the essence of motherhood and the invaluable contributions they make to our families and society.

“Being a mother is discovering strengths you didn’t know you had, and dealing with fears you never knew existed..” – Linda Wooten

I am very sensitive to the broad spectrum of Mother’s Day. To some it brings joy and fulfilment. To others it can bring pain or resentment. We are not all mothers and not all had mothers, but I would like to bring to light the pure and raw power that women can have within them to bring new life into this world. To be an absolute bad ass that cannot be contended with. I am all about empowering women in their truest of forms and one that cannot be beat is motherhood. I would like to dedicate this letter to those that have given an ultimate sacrifice. Given entirely of themselves for other tiny humans in whichever shape or form.   

From Trauma to Triumph: My Journey to a Redeeming Birth

After the trauma of birthing my first son.. 46 hours later, 36 labouring at home, and 10 hours of provider abuse by medical professionals in a hospital, pieces I will speak to later, I was blessed with a redeeming birth. My water broke at 5 am on Thursday, August 3, 2023. Nothing was progressing contraction wise, so I just let my life go on. Come Friday, I met with my midwife that confirmed it was amniotic fluid. She asked what I planned to do the rest of the day. I told her a play date with my son that has been long over do. The look on her face ! She wanted me to rest at home, but I felt safe and confident in my body. We were only blocks away from our home, so if anything were to go down it wouldn’t be a problem. There was worry around me that my water had been broken for too long. I gathered ingredients for a midwife brew that would induce labour. My husband asked that I take it, but deep down in my core, I knew this birth would come naturally. Fast forward, my husband’s sister came and picked up our son later that night. I knew it was time. I had so many big emotions of not only him leaving, but him also not being my only child any longer. I laboured for an hour and a half, starting at midnight, before calling our midwife and doula. Once they came it was REAL. I disassociated and felt as if I were in a different realm. Suddenly, SOMETHING WAS HAPPENING. At 4:01 AM, August 5, 2023, I birthed our beautiful daughter Earth side in our living room. She was fast and fierce. Her Leo showed. I wouldn’t have had it any other way.

Being in my own home, being able to rinse off in my own shower, and being tucked into my own bed after all of baby’s checks were done is indescribable. Noone to come checking in regularly, no machines or tubes, no distraction. Just myself, my husband, and our newest addition. Truly blissful.

This, unfortunately, wasn’t the same as it came to the birth of my son a few years prior.

Most people thought I was crazy when I said I was to birth at home when pregnant with my son. I just smiled and nodded, thinking the crazy thing was a hospital birth. I wanted full autonomy and no interventions. To feel and experience everything physiologically. I had read books, spoken with other mothers and fathers that birthed at home, and felt more than confident that I could too. A dear friend was our doula, and I loved our midwives. I truly believed this was the right and only choice. My water broke right at 39 weeks at 5:00 am. I calmly got out of bed and went downstairs for some preparations before gently waking my husband. He may as well have jumped out of bed and ran around in circles with the news. I told him to calm down, that I was going to go to the other bed to rest. While I did so, he set up all the fairy lights and birth pool in the living room. I then messaged our doula and midwives. I rested as I could and wanted, ate what I wanted, watched some shows, and then a movie. We had grilled cheese and soup for lunch, the sun was shining, and surges began.

Eventually though, it all becomes a blur. My contractions became VERY strong, and VERY consistent, for HOURS. It felt like it would never end. My body kept telling me to stand, but I couldn’t even do that. My husband had to hold me up. I labored on all fours, leaning on the kitchen island, no position seemed to move things along. My cervix ended up swelling shut. It was now coming on 33 hours. I was gently suggested to call for an ambulance to go to the hospital. I immediately refused. Three hours later, it was brought up again. I was so tired. I couldn’t rest, and the contractions just wouldn’t stop. I couldn’t catch my breath. It was time to make one of the most difficult decisions I had had to up to that point in my life. Give in. Give up. I would be able to rest, I was told. All I could imagine was my baby being so exhausted. Having worked for so long, for tens of hours. I eventually agreed. At 36 hours labouring at home unmedicated, the ambulance was called.

Nearly immediately, I knew my dream was about to come crashing down. I heard one of the paramedics say, “we tried to have a homebirth.” I knew I was doomed. I begged them not to strap me in, having had hospital trauma years prior. I was strapped down for transport and sent for what felt was my doom. Once admitted, I learnt that my Dr was male. I was devastated. I was told he must perform a cervical check before anything else. I begged for a nurse to do it. Surely, they are capable. The answer was an adamant “no.” It had to be him. The alternative was a c-section. This set me into hysterics. I did not want a strange old man shoving his fingers up my vagina without my consent. But I did not want a c-section. One of my fears was checked off. Lack of consent. I was screaming and crying to my husband in the bathroom, “THIS ISN’T SUPPOSED TO BE HAPPENING!” over and over.

Next came an epidural so that I could rest. It was so painful. Another fear checked off. Intervention.

I was told, “none of that yoga breathing!” as I tried to breath down my baby. I was told to, “Stop screaming! This isn’t like in the movies!” I was told, “it can’t hurt”, that the pain and wave I am feeling is not a contraction. Even though, after over 40 hours, I was well aware of what a contraction felt like.

I was lucky enough to have “been able” to have the nurse sit the bed all the way up so that I could bare down on my knees when I knew it was time to push. Again, I was told to stop the “yoga breathing” that I was to hold my breath and push that way. I was at my absolute breaking point.

My baby then began to crown. Now. Get this. I was told to stop pushing because the Dr. was not in the room. I. Saw. RED. These people were no longer going to take away ANYTHING from me or my baby. In one big raw push, I ROARED my baby out. Our son. Our Ethan Benjamin. Our trooper and warrior. His name means “strong and enduring”. It can’t be more fitting. We stuck it out together and made it through. Regardless of unforeseen circumstances that tarnished our birth story.

Birth isn’t always beautiful, but your body is.

I am a divine. I am strong. I am woman.

-S

Many Forms of Motherhood

Motherhood comes in countless forms—biological, adopted, chosen, and beyond. Each path is unique, but no matter how it unfolds, it leaves a mark on your soul. The moment you see that first positive test or hear the news that a little one is on the way, life shifts irrevocably. From that point forward, you are forever changed.

Motherhood is raw, real, and relentless. It’s piles of diapers and endless laundry, sore breasts, and bottles that need washing and sanitizing. It’s sleepless nights that stretch into endless days. It’s feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, guilty, and at times, lost. Yet, it’s also bursts of joy, pride, excitement, and the kind of love that makes it all worthwhile. In just one day, you can feel the highest highs and the lowest lows—doubt intertwined with empowerment.

And then there are the physical changes. One mother shared her story with me:

“Did you know that upon conception, your bladder shrinks to a fraction of its size to make room for the growing uterus and womb? No wonder we have to pee all the time! My body immediately began to change. Organs moved, muscles loosened, and shifted. Sometimes, I didn’t even feel like myself. Yet, in those moments, I also felt like a sacred vessel, allowing a tiny human to thrive. I was blessed with the power to grow and build LIFE!”

Babies are considered full term at 39 weeks—anything beyond that is a bonus. But, as every mother knows, babies don’t always follow the plan. Sometimes, they have their own timeline, teaching us early on that control is an illusion and that motherhood is about embracing the unexpected.

Love Triumphs Pain

Due to complications, I ended up in the hospital a month early on a Thursday night and was told I was going to have the baby that weekend. Not even 12 hours later, I was being induced on Friday morning.

Although, I didn’t have much say about whether the baby was coming, I was able to have a say about whether I wanted a medicated birth: which I did not. Because I didn’t want an epidural and I was induced, I was warned about the risk of having to have an emergency caesarean and being put under. I told the doctor and nurses the only pain medication I wanted was laughing gas, which ended up making me nauseous in the first 20 minutes and I didn’t end up using it.

I was in full control of the positions I was in during labour: laying on my side was the most comfortable and when the pressure of the baby moving his way down made me feel like I was going to poop; I was able to sit on the toilet for about 10 minutes before the nurses encouraged me to go back to the bed. When I was able to make it back, I leaned on the edge of the bed until it was no longer comfortable and laid back down on my side. The nurse brought me a peanut ball to use to help relieve pain and move things along.

When I reached 10 centimetres dilated, I had no idea the bright lights were on and the birthing team was in the room: I was on my side with my face shoved into a pillow so I could scream when the contractions would become super strong. As soon as I had birthed the baby and he was placed on my leg, I forgot about all the pain I had felt during labour. Delivering the placenta almost felt more painful than delivering the baby, but the pain would come and go because I was distracted by my baby and the fact that I just successfully birthed him.

In a matter of a few hours, I was lucky enough to have a natural and unmedicated birth to a healthy baby. I would not have been able to get through it without my amazing support team: my mom and fiancé. Even after experiencing an unmedicated birth, I would not change a single thing and would choose no pain drugs again and again.

I am brave. I am resilient. I am powerful.

-C

The Power of a Birth Team: Supporting Mom Through Every Moment

A birth team can include many different people—family members, doctors, nurses, midwives, and specialists—all contributing their unique support. Each person plays an important role, offering medical care, emotional support, or practical assistance to help both mother and baby through the birthing process.

One essential role on the team is that of a doula. While doctors, nurses, and midwives are primarily focused on the baby’s health, a doula is there for the mother—her advocate, companion, and emotional anchor. Doulas provide continuous support, offering comfort measures, guidance, and encouragement. They create a safe, nurturing environment where the mother feels empowered and cared for, no matter how the birth unfolds.

A doula’s presence can make a world of difference, reminding mothers that they are never alone in their journey, and that their strength and voice matter every step of the way. 

Holding Space: The Sacred Role of a Doula

When I found out I was pregnant with my first baby, I felt incredibly fortunate to have already learned what a doula was, and I immediately added one to my birth team. I never imagined I would one day have the honour of becoming a doula myself. But after experiencing a challenging birth, I discovered, through the journey of healing, that attending births and sitting beside new parents was truly my calling.

Birthwork lives deep within our DNA, carried through the lineage of midwives, aunties, doulas, and birth attendants who have paved the way before us. I’ll never forget the first birth I attended as a doula—the mother welcomed her baby earthside with such strength and grace, and it moved me profoundly.

Since then, many others have welcomed me into their sacred journey after learning they were pregnant, inviting me to hold space and witness their transformation through the labyrinth of Labour Land.

Birth and the postpartum period are filled with blood, sweat, and tears—but they also hold the closest encounter with the Divine Spirit, be it God, Creator, Allah, Mother Earth, or whatever name we give to the force that brings forth life.

No matter how many births I’ve attended—whether physiological, medicated, or caesarean; at home, in a hospital, or in a birthing center—I remain humbled by the raw, powerful magic of birth.

With Gratitude,

Asha

Where Love Lives: Bringing Babies into the World at Home

I knew before I was pregnant that I wanted to have my babies at home. My husband was on board because I was so confident. We both believed in me. There were many similarities between all three of my pregnancies and births, and I cherish the stories of our babies coming into the world. I love that homebirth is a normal thing for our kids and that my experiences helped expand our friends and family members' perspectives on pregnancy and birth. 

After each birth I felt a sense of pride and strength that I have not experienced anywhere else in my life. I loved the comfort of being at home. I needed the control over my body and movements, not someone telling me how to position so it would be easier for them. I wanted to know the midwives I was inviting to my births and have a relationship before I was at my most vulnerable. I did not want to think about when was the right time to go to the hospital (and would not have made it for my first). I focused on myself knowing that I was exactly where I planned to be. 

We did not know what we were having but my instinct on girl, boy, boy was correct. They were all born around 39 weeks in the bathtub or birth pool and were very fast labours- the first two less than two hours. I do not know what a stomach contraction feels like because it was my back throbbing the whole time. Afterwards being in my own bed with all of my familiar comforts and my tiny new person was lovely. 

For the second and third births it was very special to have our kids at home with us. We didn't plan alternative childcare because I did not want anyone else in the house and I knew it would be ok. The kids came to my midwife appointments and were excited and as prepared as they needed to be for their age. 

Our almost 4 year old woke up in the middle of the night when she heard me labouring and was so excited peeking around the corner when her brother was born at 3:04am. For the next birth my almost 3 year old son saw that the birth pool that had been set up for a week finally had water in it and he was getting ready to climb in with me. Although that was not the cute distraction I needed at the time it is a sweet memory. He and his sister were in a room nearby watching morning cartoons until the baby's head was born. Instead of sliding out on the same push like my first two, there was a pause between contractions with just the head underwater. I told Dad to run and get the kids and both older siblings watched me bring baby out of the water with the next push. After waiting months for their baby to come they discovered at the same time as us that they had a little brother. 

I am so happy I was able to have all my babies at home and hope I inspired others to do the same if they want to. A few weeks after our youngest was born my then 6 year old daughter thanked me for working so hard to have the baby. What an amazing Mom moment- I love that my kids already have an insider's understanding and acceptance of birth. It is not the silly scenes you see in movies. It can be full of excitement, joy, struggle, pain, sounds, movements, patience, incredible strength and determination. I am sad that part of my life has passed, but am extremely proud of myself and the confidence I had in creating each of my birth stories.

-A

The Birth Plan: Hopes, Dreams, and the Unexpected

Creating a birth plan is a common and important part of preparing for labor and delivery. It’s more than just a list of preferences—it’s a thoughtful reflection of your hopes and dreams for how the birth experience will unfold. A birth plan typically outlines key elements like the desired atmosphere, pain management options, postpartum care, and specific newborn procedures. It’s a way to communicate your wishes clearly to your birth team, helping ensure that your vision is understood and respected.

Many mothers spend hours crafting this plan, carefully considering every detail to create the ideal birth scenario. It becomes a source of comfort—a way to feel prepared and empowered in the face of the unknown. However, as many mothers discover, birth doesn’t always go according to plan. Despite the most meticulous preparation, unexpected situations can arise, requiring flexibility and resilience.

Sometimes, the journey of childbirth requires letting go of the envisioned path and embracing a new one. In those moments, it’s important to remember that while plans may change, the strength and love guiding the process remain unwavering.

From Dream to Reality: Navigating an Unplanned Birth

At 23, on the verge of having my first baby, I toured the hospital. The nurse's mention of the "ring of fire" during the birthing room visit terrified me, a term I'd never heard. Despite this fear, I held a strong belief in my body's ability to give birth naturally, echoing the experiences of women for millennia. My carefully written "birth plan" reflected this conviction.

However, my daughter arrived 12 days overdue, necessitating an induction. Labor began intensely and quickly. My water broke, and we rushed to the hospital. The pain upon arrival was overwhelming with each contraction, triggering panic. I walked to the nurses' station, desperately seeking Tylenol or anything for relief, my fear of needles paramount. They offered morphine, explaining oral medication wouldn't suffice. I hesitated, returning to my room to consider it. After two more grueling hours, I returned, begging for the injection. Twelve hours had passed.

Following the morphine shot, my labor stalled, requiring a second induction. Another six hours of labor ensued, and I was moved to the birthing room. A trip to the shared bathroom revealed a horrifying scene in the adjacent room – blood everywhere, a stark contrast to the idealized vision of childbirth. Fear gripped me; this looked nothing like a miracle.

After 24 hours, the doctor's empathetic expression as he informed me I needed a C-section was clear. My partner had returned to our room to sleep, and exhaustion washed over me. A desperate thought surfaced: "I've changed my mind, I don't want a baby. Just let me go home." I woke my partner to share the news of the impending surgery, feeling utterly devastated by my body's perceived failure.

The cesarian delivery brought my baby into the world, and the difficult labor faded almost instantly. I would do it all again without hesitation. My experience was nothing like I had envisioned. Perhaps my doctor should have disregarded my "birth plan," emphasizing the unpredictability of the process. Ultimately, the goal – a beautiful, healthy baby – was achieved.

Pregnancy and labor are indeed messy, unpredictable, and undeniably miraculous.

-D

Motherhood is a journey defined by resilience, vulnerability, and unwavering love. It doesn’t come in one shape or form, nor does it follow a predictable path. Whether the journey unfolds at home, in a hospital, with a supportive birth team, or through unexpected challenges, every story holds its own beauty and power. Through these personal reflections, we honor the mothers who embody strength through every contraction, every sleepless night, and every transformative moment. Motherhood is more than a role—it’s a testament to the human spirit, the ability to nurture life, and the courage to embrace the unknown. To all the mothers, in every form and story—you are powerful, you are remarkable, and today, we celebrate you.

Happy Mother’s Day

This Blog was written by one of my dear friends and client’s Miss S. Thank you Sarah for sharing your story and the stories of others.

May Full Moon - The Flower Moon

Flower Full Moon Ceremony Blog for Your Boudoir Journey

The Full Moon of May, often called the "Flower Moon," marks a time of abundance, growth, and blossoming beauty. This moon celebrates the peak of spring, reminding us to embrace the blooming energy within ourselves. Just as the earth is bursting with life, it’s time for you to step into your radiance and honor your unique power. A full moon ceremony is the perfect way to channel this energy and celebrate your inner goddess.

What Does the May Flower Moon Represent?

The Flower Moon symbolizes fertility, creativity, and transformation. It’s a time to shed the last remnants of winter’s stillness and fully embody your vibrancy. Under this moon, we’re called to nurture our passions, foster self-love, and embrace the beauty of who we are. The Flower Moon’s energy is about blooming into your best self—unapologetically.

How to Do Your Own Full Moon Ceremony at Home

You don’t need elaborate tools or rituals to honor the Flower Moon. Here’s a simple, empowering guide:

1. Prepare Your Space

• Choose a quiet area where you won’t be disturbed.

• Light candles and incense to create a calming ambiance. Lavender, rose, or jasmine are ideal for the Flower Moon.

• Place flowers or fresh greenery around you to symbolize growth and beauty.

• Bring a journal, pen, and any crystals associated with love and creativity (e.g., rose quartz or citrine).

2. Cleanse Your Energy

• Use sage, palo santo, or sound cleansing (like a singing bowl) to clear your space and aura.

• As you cleanse, say aloud: “I release what no longer serves me. I invite love, abundance, and creativity into my life.”

3. Set Intentions

• Sit comfortably and take a few deep breaths.

• Reflect on what you want to bloom in your life. Focus on self-love, empowerment, or any specific goal you’ve been nurturing.

• Write your intentions in your journal as if they’ve already come true. For example: “I radiate confidence and love in all that I do.”

4. Meditate Under the Moonlight

• If possible, sit outside or near a window with moonlight streaming in.

• Visualize yourself blossoming like a flower, opening up to the world with grace and strength.

5. Close with Gratitude

• Thank the moon for its guidance and energy.

• Write a short gratitude list in your journal, focusing on the things that bring joy and beauty to your life.

Journal Prompts for the May Flower Moon

• What areas of my life are blossoming, and how can I nurture them further?

• How do I define beauty within myself?

• What old habits or beliefs am I ready to release to make space for growth?

• How can I show myself more love and appreciation?

• What intentions do I want to set for the next phase of my journey?

A Prayer for the May Full Moon

Under the glow of the Flower Moon, I honor the beauty within me.
I release all that dims my light and step fully into my power.
May I blossom with confidence, grace, and love.
I am worthy of abundance, joy, and growth.
Thank you, moon, for your luminous guidance. And so it is.

Divine Women in Ancient Religions: The Spiritual Power of Women in Sacred Texts

Women have long been at the center of ancient religious traditions, often revered for their divine qualities and spiritual power. These sacred figures played essential roles in the myths, rituals, and practices that shaped early civilizations and many of these roles continue to resonate today. From the ancient Egyptian goddess Isis to the fierce Hindu goddess Kali, and the revered Mary Magdalene in Christian tradition, the spiritual power of women has always been a vital force.

By reclaiming these divine archetypes, modern women can tap into a deep well of empowerment, reconnecting with their inner strength and wisdom. Let’s explore the divine women in sacred texts and how embracing their power can lead to spiritual awakening.

The Role of Women in Ancient Religious Traditions

Isis: The Egyptian Goddess of Magic and Healing

Isis was one of the most important and beloved deities in ancient Egypt. Known as the goddess of magic, healing, and motherhood, Isis was revered for her wisdom and ability to protect and guide her followers. Her story, which includes the resurrection of her husband Osiris and the protection of their son Horus, symbolizes the power of life, death, and rebirth. Isis was often depicted as a strong, nurturing figure—one who embodied the duality of being both a fierce protector and a compassionate healer.

For modern women, connecting with Isis’ energy can be a way to reclaim their own healing powers. In a world that often asks women to suppress their emotions or limit their expressions of power, embodying Isis’ wisdom reminds us of the importance of nurturing our inner strength, while also embracing our capacity for deep compassion and care.

Kali: The Hindu Goddess of Transformation

Kali, the Hindu goddess of destruction and transformation, is a powerful and often misunderstood figure. Known for her fierce nature, Kali is not a goddess of death, but of change. She represents the destructive force that clears away what no longer serves, making space for new beginnings. Kali’s energy is often associated with empowerment as she challenges the status quo and inspires those who connect with her to embrace their inner power and fearlessness.

By channeling Kali’s energy, women can step into their authentic selves Unapologetically breaking free from societal expectations and embracing their true, unfiltered power. Kali encourages us to shed outdated beliefs and behaviors, allowing us to evolve into more powerful and self-actualized beings.

Mary Magdalene: The Sacred Feminine in Christianity

Mary Magdalene’s role in Christianity has long been misunderstood and diminished, but new understandings of her story are reclaiming her place as a powerful spiritual figure. Traditionally seen as a repentant sinner, recent scholarship paints Mary Magdalene as a disciple, a leader, and a teacher who was close to Jesus and deeply connected to the divine. She embodies the sacred feminine and represents wisdom, devotion, and spiritual enlightenment.

Embracing the energy of Mary Magdalene encourages women to trust their own spiritual journey and to reject shame or guilt in favor of inner knowing and divine connection. Her story reminds us of the importance of reclaiming our own narrative, embracing our divine feminine power, and being unapologetically spiritual.

Reclaiming the Divine Feminine Power

By reconnecting with these divine women, modern women can reclaim their own power, wisdom, and spiritual connection. Whether through the nurturing and healing energy of Isis, the transformative power of Kali, or the wisdom and devotion of Mary Magdalene, the divine feminine archetype serves as a reminder of the strength, beauty, and grace within all women. Reclaiming these archetypes is a powerful act of self-empowerment that allows us to reconnect with our inner selves, trust in our intuition, and embrace our spiritual journey with confidence and clarity.

In today’s world, where women are often told to silence their voices or conform to limiting standards, the energy of these divine figures offers a roadmap for spiritual awakening and personal empowerment. Women can tap into the strength of these archetypes to remember their own innate power, shed outdated expectations, and step into their full potential.

How to Reclaim Your Inner Goddess

1. Meditation & Rituals: Incorporate daily rituals to invoke the energy of these divine women. Meditate on their qualities and visualize yourself embodying their power. Light a candle, offer flowers, or simply sit in quiet reflection to honor their presence.

2. Self-Care Practices: Embrace self-care as a sacred act. Treat your body and spirit with reverence, allowing time for relaxation, rest, and rejuvenation.

3. Journaling: Reflect on your spiritual journey and write about the qualities you admire in these divine women. How can you embody their wisdom in your daily life?

4. Connect With Your Inner Power: Trust your intuition and embrace your unique gifts. Allow yourself to be unapologetically bold, creative, and free.

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Tied Up in Art: The Sensual History of Shibari Rope Tie (Now at Pink Blush Boudoir!) -

Let’s get tied up in something deliciously bold and beautifully empowering, shall we?

I’m so excited to share a brand-new offering in the studio: Shibari rope tie sessions—now available as an add-on to your boudoir shoot here at Pink Blush. Whether you choose the deep, passionate hue of red rope or the natural, earthy tone of tan, this addition adds a level of sensuality, power, and artistry that is unlike anything else.

But before we dive into what this experience looks like in front of the lens, let’s talk a little about the roots of this ancient and intimate art form.

The Story Behind the Knots: A Brief History of Shibari

Shibari, meaning “to tie” in Japanese, traces its origins back to Hojojutsu, a martial art used by Samurai to restrain captives with rope. Over time, this evolved into an erotic performance art known as Kinbaku, which literally means "tight binding." What began as a method of control and discipline was eventually transformed into a deeply expressive and emotional practice—one that emphasized beauty, vulnerability, and connection.

In modern-day Shibari, the ropes become an extension of emotion. Every knot tells a story. Every bind is a conversation between trust and surrender. And within the world of boudoir, it’s a stunning way to explore both your softness and your strength—your wildness and your worth.

From Bound to Bold: A Muse’s First Time in the Spotlight

The client featured in the images from this session is one of my incredible Muze Call babes. This was her first time ever posing—and let me tell you, she owned it. Not only did she step into a completely new style of shoot with grace and sensuality, but she also had the courage to go LIVE on Facebook and share her story.

That kind of bravery? That kind of vulnerability? That’s what this work is all about.

It’s not just about pretty pictures—it’s about transformation. It’s about taking up space in your own body again. It’s about letting yourself be seen, in all your rawness, beauty, and power.

Why Add Shibari to Your Boudoir Experience?

• Empowerment Through Surrender: There’s something uniquely freeing about letting go and letting the rope hold you. Shibari isn't about being overpowered—it’s about claiming a deeper part of your power.

• Stunning Visual Art: The lines and symmetry created by rope tie elevate your session into fine art. It’s sculpture. It’s story. It’s sensual poetry for the eye.

• Body Connection: Many women report a deeper connection to their body during and after Shibari sessions. The rope becomes a guide—not just on your skin, but in your soul.

Let Me Tie You Up, Babe

If you’ve ever been curious about rope play, or if you’re simply craving a shoot that pushes boundaries and redefines intimacy, this might just be the moment to say yes to something new.

Shibari rope tie is now available as a boudoir add-on at my Edmonton studio, using either red or tan rope to match your vibe. Sessions are completely customized, and your comfort is always priority number one.

To my stunning Muze Call model—thank you for your trust, your courage, and your beauty. You’ve inspired more women than you know.

Ready to get tangled up in your own transformation?

Let’s tie you into something unforgettable.

Baddie Brides: Be Your Own Something Blue

Bridal Boudoir with Attitude, Elegance, and Just the Right Amount of Sass

Let’s get one thing straight—you are the something blue, babe.

At Pink Blush Boudoir, we’re throwing out the rulebook and rewriting what it means to be a bride in 2025. Our Baddie Brides Boudoir Experience is for the bold, the sensual, the soft-but-dangerous kind of woman who’s ready to claim her space, her beauty, and her power—before the big “I do.”

And what better way to say I’m the damn prize than wrapped in silky light blue sheets, dripping in rhinestone body jewelry, and captured in timeless, tasteful boudoir photography?

Why Book a Bridal Boudoir Shoot?

Bridal boudoir photography isn’t just about giving a gift to your partner—although let’s be honest, they’re going to lose their mind.
It’s about giving a gift to yourself.

You’ve planned the wedding, picked the dress, obsessed over the flowers… but have you taken a moment to slow down and connect to you?

A boudoir shoot is your chance to…

• Celebrate your body before the wedding chaos kicks in

• Capture your sensual side in a way your wedding photos never will

• Create an unforgettable gift (hello, wedding day album or morning-of surprise!)

• Reconnect with your feminine energy, confidence, and worth

What's Included in the Baddie Brides Experience?

This is not your average bridal session. Here’s just a few of the options I have that makes it next-level:

💎 Access to our exclusive rhinestone body jewelry collection – bold, luxurious pieces that elevate any look (or no look at all)

🛏️ Our new light blue sheet set – your modern take on the classic “something blue”

🥂 Optional champagne pour or rain room add-ons – because why not go full goddess?

👰 A full pre-shoot consultation, professional hair and makeup, and access to our curated client closet, including sultry white lingerie, veils, robes, and more

📸 A completely customized, empowering photo session that captures your most confident, radiant self

Who Is This For?

💍 Brides-to-be who want to slay in and out of their dress
💎 Wives who are ready to reignite the fire and treat themselves to a second bridal moment
💘 Women who are saying yes to themselves and don’t need a wedding date to show up and glow up

Ready to Be Your Own Something Blue?

The Baddie Brides Boudoir Promo is now booking, but spots are limited.
Make this part of your bridal journey unforgettable—and unapologetically you.

Because you're not just the bride.
You're the main event, and you are ready to say “I Do”

April Full Moon: The Pink Moon - Embrace Your Sensual Power

April’s Full Moon: The Pink Moon

The April full moon, known as the Pink Moon, signals renewal, growth, and awakening. While the name originates from the blooming of wild pink phlox, it carries a deeper symbolic meaning of blossoming into your authentic self. This moon encourages us to shed the last layers of winter stagnation and step into the vibrant energy of spring.

In the realm of empowerment, the Pink Moon is an invitation to embrace your sensuality and celebrate the essence of who you are—raw, beautiful, and unapologetic.

Your Full Moon Ceremony at Home

Turn your home into a sacred space where you can honor your journey, release what no longer serves you, and manifest your deepest desires.

What You’ll Need:

• A candle (pink or white for love and clarity)

• Sage, palo santo, or your favorite cleansing incense

• A journal and pen

• A mirror

• A small bowl of water or flowers (optional, for added beauty)

• Crystals like rose quartz or moonstone for self-love

Steps to Your Ceremony:

1. Cleanse Your Space
   Begin by clearing your energy and physical space. Light sage or palo santo and gently wave it around your room. Visualize negative energy dissipating.

2. Set the Mood
   Dim the lights, light your candle, and play soft, sensual music. Sit comfortably and let yourself feel grounded.

3. Connect With the Moon
   Open a window or step outside to bask in the moonlight. Take a few deep breaths, imagining the moon’s light cleansing and filling you with love and energy.

4. Mirror Ritual
   Stand before a mirror and look deeply into your own eyes. Say out loud:
   “I am whole. I am radiant. I am worthy of love and joy.”
   Repeat this affirmation as many times as you need to feel its power.

5. Journaling Session
   Use the prompts below to reflect and release.

6. Closing Prayer
   Recite the guided prayer to seal your intentions and invite new energy.

7. Self-Care Finale
   Treat yourself to a sensual activity like a bubble bath, a self-massage, or simply lounging in luxurious lingerie.

Journal Prompts for April’s Full Moon

1. What part of myself am I ready to embrace fully?

2. What do I need to release to grow into my most sensual, empowered self?

3. How can I honor my body and spirit this month?

4. What desires am I ready to manifest?

5. How can I show gratitude for the beauty in my life?

Guided Prayer for the Pink Moon

"Luminous moon, guide me with your glow.
Help me release what no longer serves me,
And make space for love, growth, and abundance.
I honor my body, my spirit, and my path.
May I move forward with confidence and grace,
Trusting in my power and the beauty within me.
Thank you for this moment of renewal."

The Erotic Art of Resistance: How Feminist Artists Use Sensuality to Challenge Objectification

In the world of contemporary art, one powerful movement is shifting the gaze from passive objectification to active reclamation. Feminist artists are taking control of sensuality and eroticism, using them as tools of resistance to challenge the often deeply ingrained misogyny that has shaped the narrative of women’s bodies for centuries. Through their provocative works, these artists are not only reclaiming women's sexuality, but also critiquing society’s restrictive and often harmful views on female desire, power, and identity.

Reclaiming Women's Bodies

For too long, women’s bodies have been seen through a lens of objectification, most notably in art history. Classical works often depicted the female form as a passive, alluring object, framed for male pleasure. However, feminist artists have turned the narrative on its head. They are using sensuality and eroticism not as means to objectify, but as powerful expressions of control, freedom, and autonomy.

One of the key methods that these artists employ is the exploration of the female gaze and its reclaiming of sexuality. Works by artists like Judy Chicago with her groundbreaking installation The Dinner Party or Betty Tompkins and her controversial pieces that openly explore sexual acts, challenging the idea that women should be demure or passive in the face of desire. By showcasing sexuality without shame or inhibition, these artists boldly question the patriarchy’s control over how women’s bodies are portrayed and experienced.

Sensuality As Social Critique

Feminist art isn't just about sexual liberation—it's about using sensuality to challenge social structures. Many of these works force the viewer to confront uncomfortable truths about gender inequality, objectification, and violence. For example, Cindy Sherman’s series of photographs, where she assumes various roles of hyper-sexualized women, uses the concept of performance to show how gender identity is socially constructed. Her work reflects the fluidity of sexuality and identity while also illustrating how women are often forced into predetermined roles by a male dominated society.

Carolee Schneemann’s Interior Scroll’s performance art from the 1970s is another iconic example of how eroticism and sensuality can become powerful forms of protest. In this work, Schneemann’s body is both the subject and the medium, as she reads from a scroll that emerges from her vagina. Combining nudity, eroticism, and feminist critique into an unflinching statement against the objectification of women’s bodies.

Eroticism As Empowerment

At the heart of these feminist artistic expressions is the concept of empowerment. For these artists, eroticism is not something to be shamed or repressed, but something to be celebrated as a vital part of human experience. It’s a powerful tool for reclaiming agency over one's body and one's narrative.

Lorna Simpson, for example, has explored how race, gender, and sexuality intersect, often focusing on Black women’s experiences of sensuality and their struggles against objectification. Her work, through still photography and video, highlights the complexity of sexual identity while also critiquing the cultural forces that have historically marginalized Black female bodies.

By presenting eroticism in its raw, unapologetic form, feminist artists are challenging the status quo, redefining the way women’s bodies can be seen in art and society. They are pushing back against centuries of male supremacy and creating a new visual language where women have the right to express their sexuality on their own terms.

A Cultural Shift: From Shame to Pride

The era of shaming women for their sexuality is slowly coming to an end, thanks to these trailblazing artists. Today, there is a shift toward embracing sensuality as a form of self-expression and empowerment. As more women reclaim their bodies and their narratives, the boundaries of art, sexuality, and feminism continue to evolve.

Contemporary feminist artists remind us that sensuality, when used intentionally and with agency, is not only an expression of individual freedom but a critique of the societal systems that seek to confine women’s roles. These works ask us to reconsider the boundaries of eroticism, and in doing so, challenge our understanding of power, identity, and resistance.

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Introducing Shibari Rope Tying Boudoir

✨Sensual, Artistic, & Utterly Mesmerizing ✨

Tension. Release. Power. Surrender.

Boudoir is all about self-expression, vulnerability, and stepping into your power. And now, I’m taking it to the next level with my brand-new Shibari Rope Tying Sets—where art, intimacy, and seduction come together in the most breathtakingly erotic way.

What is Shibari?
Shibari is the Japanese art of rope tying, a practice that blends sensuality, strength, and trust into visually stunning body art. Every knot, every delicate wrap, enhances your form—highlighting your curves, movement, and presence in a way that feels both intimate and empowering.

Your Shibari Boudoir Experience

You can choose from two gorgeous rope colors to customize your look:
Red Rope – Bold, striking, and dripping in seduction
Tan Rope – Natural, organic, and effortlessly sensual

Want to push the experience even further? This set add-on can be combined with:
✨ Bondage props – Including my St. Andrew’s Cross for a bold, powerful aesthetic
✨ Aerial Ring & Levitation – Using my aerial rigging for gravity-defying poses that will leave you speechless
✨ Erotic & Artful Lighting – Dramatic shadows, rich textures, and cinematic details to make every shot feel unreal

Miss A & Miss C – Two Mesmerizing Looks

I’ve already had the pleasure of capturing two incredible models in this set:
📸 Miss A, wrapped in tan rope, embodies soft, ethereal sensuality.
📸 Miss C, bound in red rope, radiating fiery, unapologetic dominance.

The contrast between these styles shows just how personalized and unique each session can be—whether you’re embracing soft surrender or fierce control, this set is all about YOU.

Who Is This For?

💋 Lovers of artistic, intimate imagery
💋 Anyone curious about exploring rope play in a safe, stunning environment
💋 Those who want to embody strength, sensuality, and surrender in a new way
💋 Anyone looking for an experience that is both erotic and empowering

How to Book Your Shibari Boudoir Session

This experience is available as an exclusive add-on to any boudoir session for only $199. Whether you want to incorporate bondage elements or aerial work or keep it simple and sensual, this set is designed to be as bold or subtle as you desire.

If you book a shoot before April 30th 2025, you will get your Shabari set discounted. Use Promo Code SHABARI at the time of booking.

Rain Room Mini Sessions Are BACK – May 2025!

💦 Get ready to turn up the heat – the most requested, most exhilarating, most jaw-dropping boudoir experience is BACK this May! 💦

If you’ve ever dreamed of stepping into your main character era, dripping in confidence, moving like you just stepped out of a music video, or basking in the ultimate wet & wild energy, this is YOUR moment.

What is the Rain Room?

Imagine warm water cascading over your skin, soft lighting creating the most cinematic, sultry glow, and you—completely lost in the moment, feeling strong, sexy, and utterly free. My Rain Room Minis are an intoxicating mix of empowerment and art, designed to make you feel like an absolute goddess.

These sessions are not just photoshoots—they’re a full-body experience. A chance to:
✨ Let go of inhibitions
✨ Channel your inner music video icon
✨ Reconnect with your sensuality
✨ Capture breathtaking, dynamic, and one-of-a-kind images

Who Is This For?

💦 Moms who need a moment of uninterrupted, toddler-free bliss
💦 My 80s Babies who’ve always wanted their Flashdance moment
💦 Babes on a healing journey, ready to wash away shame and step into their power
💦 Music lovers & wild hearts who want to feel like they’re starring in their own music video
💦 Past clients looking for a mini-session touch-up and a little extra self-love

What’s Included in Your Rain Room Mini?

🔥 30-minute Rain Room session (trust me, this is all you need to get some 🔥🔥🔥 shots!)
🔥 Expert posing guidance—I’ll direct you through every move, plus you’ll get access to my posing videos as soon as you book
🔥 Steamy, cinematic lighting to bring out your best angles
🔥 A jaw-dropping gallery of stunning, high-impact images

How to Book Your Spot

My Rain Room Minis are only available for a limited time in May 2025, and every year, they sell out FAST. If you want in on the magic, you’ll need to snag your spot ASAP!

📅 When? May 2nd 4th 9th and 11th 2025
📍 Where? Pink Blush Boudoir Studio
💲 How much? Special mini pricing— Sessions starting at $399 and Digital Packages as low as $699

✨ Ready to drench yourself in confidence? Let’s make magic. Book your session today! ✨

💦🤠 Rhinestone Cowgirl in the Rain Room – where Western charm meets high-fashion Bling. Dripping in rain, rhinestones, and pure confidence, this shoot is straight out of a country music video. 🌟 Whether you’re a rodeo queen, country babe, or just love a little cowboy glam, this is your time to shine!

For the badass babes who love motorbikes, I have some exciting news—the Rain Room can now accommodate motorcycles! 🚀🔥 I always get requests for motorcycle boudoir shoots, and this is hands-down the best way to do it. No more hunting for secret outdoor locations—this private, controlled setting ensures we get the most jaw-dropping, sultry shots possible. With the mix of rain, oil, and glistening metal, your photos will be dripping in power, edge, and pure sex appeal.

Rain Room Boudoir

• Motorcycle Boudoir Photography

• Sexy Motorcycle Photoshoot

• Flashdance Inspired Boudoir

• Wet Boudoir Photography

• Music Video Photoshoot

• Empowering Boudoir Experience

• Boudoir for Women Over 40

• Private Boudoir Studio

• Edmonton Boudoir Photography

• Confidence Boost Photoshoot

• Sensual Boudoir Session

March Full Moon: The Worm Moon - Embrace Your Inner Glow

Full Moon Ceremony Blog:

Embrace Your Inner Glow this March

The full moon is a magical time to reflect, release, and recharge. Each month, the moon carries a unique energy based on its position in the sky, and March’s full moon is no exception. Known as the Worm Moon, it marks the promise of new beginnings, growth, and awakening after winter’s slumber. Let’s dive into the significance of March’s moon and how you can create your own empowering full moon ceremony at home.

The March Full Moon: The Worm Moon

The Worm Moon gets its name from the time of year when the soil begins to thaw, and earthworms reappear, signaling the start of spring. This moon is all about rebirth, fertility, and transformation. It encourages you to shed the old, stagnant energies of winter and step boldly into a season of growth.

Astrologically, the March moon often falls in Virgo or Libra, bringing themes of balance, organization, and harmony in relationships. It's an ideal time to align your intentions with the blossoming energy of spring and let go of anything that no longer serves you.

How to Host Your Own Full Moon Ceremony

Whether you're new to moon ceremonies or a seasoned moon goddess, crafting a personal ritual can help you harness the Worm Moon’s energy. Here’s a simple yet powerful guide to creating your own ceremony at home:

1. Set the Scene

• Choose a quiet space where you feel comfortable and connected to yourself.

• Gather a few items to enhance your ceremony:

  • Candles: White for clarity or green for growth.

  • Crystals: Clear quartz, citrine, or moonstone.

  • Sage or Palo Santo: For cleansing your space.

  • Flowers or plants: To honor spring’s rebirth.

  • A journal and pen: To reflect and set intentions.

• Play soft, soothing music or enjoy the silence under the moonlight.

2. Cleanse Your Energy

Begin by cleansing yourself and your space. Light your sage or Palo Santo, and with intention, wave the smoke around your body and the area. Say aloud:
"I release all that no longer serves me. I invite in the light of the full moon to cleanse and recharge my energy."

3. Meditate Under the Moonlight

If possible, sit where you can see or feel the moon. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths. Visualize the moon’s light washing over you, filling you with calm and radiant energy. Let it illuminate your heart and guide you toward clarity.

4. Reflect and Release

Take your journal and reflect on these prompts:

• What am I ready to release this month?

• What areas of my life are ready for growth and renewal?

• What lessons from winter can I carry forward with gratitude?

Write down what no longer serves you and burn the paper (safely) to symbolize releasing it to the universe.

5. Set Your Intentions

Now, write down your intentions for the season of growth ahead. Be specific and positive, framing them as affirmations. For example:

• I welcome balance and harmony into my relationships.

• I embrace new opportunities with courage and confidence.

• I am ready to grow into my full potential.

A Full Moon Prayer

Use this prayer to close your ceremony with gratitude and intention:

"Dear Moon, keeper of light and wisdom,
Thank you for illuminating my path and helping me release what no longer serves me.
I honor the lessons of the past and step boldly into this season of growth and renewal.
Guide me as I embrace my potential and move forward with love and intention.
So it is."

Journaling Prompts for the March Full Moon

• What emotions, habits, or fears am I ready to let go of?

• How can I create more balance in my life?

• What is one step I can take toward a goal that excites me?

• How can I honor and celebrate my growth this spring?

Final Thoughts

The Worm Moon is your cosmic cue to step into the light, shed the layers of winter, and bloom into your radiant self. Take this time to honor your journey, celebrate your growth, and plant seeds for a beautiful future. A full moon ceremony is more than a ritual; it’s a moment to connect with your inner power and remember just how magical you are.

Empower yourself. Release the past. Glow into the future. 🌕✨

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