Wow! We are already two months into 2025, and International Women’s Day is tomorrow.

This past year has been one of deep transformation for me—painful, eye-opening, and, ultimately, liberating.

I am preparing a project designed to help a women like you step into your power and reconnect with your true self with a mind-blowing, life-changing boudoir experience.

To start:

When I first began my boudoir journey, I felt compelled to hold back on who I really was. To hide my past and play it safe with my clients. I was so worried if clients knew I was once a Stripper that I would scare them all off. It has taken many years of growth, acceptance & trial and error for me to come to see that the more I show up as who I truly am for my clients, the better my work and my ability to help other women gets.

I have chosen to be authentically vulnerable with you, with the hope that, if this resonates with you, that you can heal, too.

A year ago I made the difficult decision to go no contact with four family members, including my parents and two siblings. It wasn’t a choice made lightly. It was a realization that after years of doing the work—digging into my trauma, healing, and growing—I was the only one trying. The only one flipping around like a circus monkey, desperately seeking validation, an apology, or even the smallest sign that my family wanted to heal with me. Instead, I was met with dismissiveness and gaslighting.

I feel the need to share this because many of us who experienced things like physical, sexual, or emotional abuse as children are afraid to talk about it because we think the shame is ours. It is not! You were a child and you were abused. It is part of your story, and that is all it will be. It may be a painful chapter of life, but it is not who you ARE. The only ones who are to blame, and should feel shameful, are the ones who caused you harm.

Let’s be real—if someone refuses to take accountability, dodges meaningful conversations, or expects you to forgive without any effort to change, that’s a red flag. It doesn’t matter if it’s a family member, a friend, or a romantic partner. The bottom line is this: we deserve healthy, loving relationships. Relationships where communication is welcomed, feelings are validated, and boundaries are respected.

However, society tells us a different story, doesn’t it? We’re fed this idea that “family is everything,” and that we should never walk away, no matter what. The same toxic message is pushed for marriages and even long-term friendships. But here’s what I’ve learned: not everyone is meant to stay in our lives forever. Some people are lessons, some are catalysts, and some are soulmates for a season.

This past year, as I truly opened my eyes to this, I saw how I wasn’t fully loving or honoring myself. That hit hard. Here I am, a boudoir photographer, constantly telling women to practice self-love, set boundaries, refuse to tolerate bad behavior, and always show up as you are—yet, I wasn’t fully embodying those words myself.

Between the disconnection from my family and losing both of my beloved dog children this January, I feel like I’ve been stripped down to my rawest self. But, through time, I feel reborn. Stronger than ever. Ready to shed the shame that was never mine to carry. Ready to step deeper than ever before into the depths of my true strength, and help other women do the same.

So, I’m launching something powerful. Something that will help you rise.

Introducing: The Rebirth & Revival Project

10 incredible women will be chosen to go on this next-level journey with me. Through a new video series, we will dive deep into shedding what no longer serves us, embracing our divine femininity, and stepping into the fullest version of ourselves. The video series will include videos on how to pose, while helping you learn to drop in and connect to your own body, intuition, creativity, and personal power.

When women learn how to connect with their bodies in the deepest, most feminine ways, we get to tap into our intuition, our creativity, our deeper knowledge. We can then start to uncover our true feelings. We can sort out the negative clutter in our heads and identify where is comes from and then we can let go of it. Once you know your truth, then you can start to use your voice. Women often play caregiver/peacekeeper roles, which is all fine, but not if that means your needs are never met and your boundaries are always being trampled.

I will also include videos on breath work, mirror affirmations, and other self-love rituals to help boost yourself up so high that you feel ready and empowered to slay during your shoot.

The photos in this blog are self-portraits. They are a representation of how I want all my clients to be able to express themselves during their time with me. I want you to feel free to express the pleasure and joy of being in your body. We all come in different shapes and sizes, so sure the photos will all look different. But we all have a cosmic seductress within us, My job is to help you find her, bring her out of the ashes, and witness her in all her glory.

2025 is the Year of the Snake—a year of transformation, shedding old skin, and stepping into new personal heights.

You are ready to join me on this journey, this is your year for a revival. Click the link to apply