I love that my line of work puts me in contact with so many women is such an intimate way. We are such beautiful creatures, and we really do down play each other sometimes. I remember growing up almost having a fear of women and making new female friends because let’s face it high school girls are mean. We all know we have been there one way or another. But for me there is good news, my career in boudoir has completely change those fears for me.

Over the last 10 years I have met so many loving, strong, smart, and beautiful women, too many to count. I get blessed every week with the opportunity to work with women like Miss J. I get to hear their stories, learn from their life experience, and gather a better understanding of women as a whole. I can say most of us are loving beings who have been scarred by our life experiences. Some have done a lot of healing around those experiences, some of us haven’t gotten there yet.

We are often afraid of what others would think of us if they saw who we really are. We are afraid that we aren’t enough. Some of us are lonely and longing for connection from our partners or our female tribe.

I want to share this with you because I think it is so important to remember whatever you are feeling the woman across the room is probably feeling something similar. That woman you look up too, is probably looking back at you in awe. The women who treats you unkindly is probably reacting with her defences up because she has been wounded and hasn’t realized she doens’t have to be like that with every women. We all have struggles, we all have wounds, but we can over come. Women have the ability to forgive, have empathy and love like nothing else in this world. If anyone can, we can. Love your sisters and don’t forget to love yourself along the way.